To be embarrassed in front of many people is an experience you’ll never forget especially if you were not able to explain your side. And one thing which hurt the most is to be embarrassed when you don’t even know the problem at all.
Just like with what Tyler Newman, from Tennessee who was left furious after his fiancee Tori was left in tears and distraught after being told to leave the communal pool outside her apartment because her swimsuit might “excite teenage boys”.
Tori Jenkins then from Knoxville, Tennessee, was ordered to pose for photos in her cossie so that the problem could be pointed out to her. Her fiancee took to Facebook to blast how the issue had been handled – labeling it “rape culture”.
Alongside with Tori’s picture wearing the pink swimming costume, he wrote:
“I’ve never seen my fiancee so embarrassed to the point where she can’t even look her best friends in the face. I’ve never seen her cry like she did in our apartment today. Never seen her want to be isolated like that. All because some ignorant a**holes think they can police the size and shape of her body. I’ve never seen a woman so disrespected.”
“MY POINT: My fiancee being told she should cover up on a 90 degree day in our own apartment pool because she will ‘excite teenage boys’ is bulls***. I will not stand for this. My fiancee should be able to wear a bathing suit without being sexualised and demeaned. She shouldn’t feel violated.”
Tyler was so hurt after hearing his fiancee was told she is less important than how men feel around her. But one thing he’s for sure that his fiancee is the most beautiful and he respects her no matter what. Tori’s bad experience is what Tyler don’t want to happen to anyone else again and feel less important of what other say. As he mentioned, “This is how rape culture continues to grow.”
People who have read about Tyler’s story are stating there’s nothing wrong with Tori’s outfit.
SOURCE: THE SUN